Finding the scales of balance.

Balance is not always easy in life.So many kinds to explore,from standing ,walking ,eating,playing,learning,growing,sharing,taking,loving,living,creating just so many kinds to learn.Do we learn in balance that to take to much and nothing is left to balance the taxing and giving then it seams you have enough for all the next day if you do not over harvest on the day before and you plant in balance and grow so many things that need a healthy balance,but who's to say what is a healthy balance any more? When young the world seams perfect, till your first major pain.Most time it is a learning pain tho like do not touch hot!Some parents tho just do not watch children much some over watch with out the guiding hand just a NO with out understanding why besides they said so.Some say no hot no bite no bad and try to watch you and you learn fast why they say no and you are not punished for hurting self because you where learning a well learned lesson.Your pain was looked at and properly cared for and next time the say no it hot or it cause pain you learn faster in peace and not major trauma. We keep saying we want freedom to be allowed to grow be how ever we see fit in peace with in the world,but our actions some prebias some learned in a sad harmful way.In a balanced home i think everyone should be respected for there gifts and nurtured to grow to be the best for themselves as well as for there loved ones a balance of give and take.In science and natural health we seem to be loosing as there seams to be no balance in teaching good health and good tasting or fast acting to slow healing.In schools children have been lost because there is no balance at home for a teacher to help grow a parent needs to spend time and be able to teach there child how to at least go a b c 1 2 3 4 5 you can not expect a teacher to be able o teach 15 to 45 children each to do this in a learning way to sit still for 2 and 3 hours at a time.The balance is the teacher and parent both should be caring for a child's best interest as well as the future community the children with grow up into.Why if we seek balance and freedom of choice do we knock down others who want to enjoy that same freedom in peace in there community?Balance has me so off balance but then my live is a see saw with fast stops not a nice slow up and down with some times just sitting in total balance with the other side of the see saw.So many times i say no i cola a day is enough then i now say no 1 cola a week is enough this is now my balance others may be yeah 3 sodas a day and it is ok with there balance and i do not care not hurting me or themselves yeah.When to much we all want to say something to someone but when we hear it ohno stay out my business but in off balance these same are first ones to say i told you so when they could not hear themselves and you do not push your i told you so's.Can this world ever have balance will i ever find a healthy balance in life ?So many self questions since all the years i have been blogging and learning and sharing and taking not many have answered my open questions .lol balance is its not to get feed back but if no one else cares why should I about them?Easy to care openly is to want the best for all people and in there happy hurtful way as i live in mine.and bla bla bla now back to seeing if i can find balance in health.God will be done i pray either way.